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The School of Reclamation
The School of Reclamation™
Midlife is not a crisis. It’s a crossing.
Welcome to the School of Reclamation™ — home of the Phoenix Pathways™ and the Initiation Codes™ Cohort.
This is where biology meets destiny.
Where nervous system regulation meets soul truth.
Where women stop surviving midlife — and consciously cross it.
Enrollment is open for this Cohort and includes FREE retreat tuition on our first ever Cougarty Cruise!
Midlife Is Not Random. It’s Initiatory.
You are not “losing yourself.”
You are shedding.
What’s burning away is not your identity —
it’s who you had to be to survive earlier chapters.
Midlife activates specific astrological transits in your chart.
Those transits light up particular Gates in your Human Design. I call these Gates your Initiation Codes™.
They reveal:
• What is dissolving
• What you’ve outgrown
• Where you’ve over-functioned
• Where you’ve given your precious f*cks away
• What deeper wisdom is emerging
This is not chaos.
It’s design.
Midlife is not decline. It is initiation.
How It Works Together
Phoenix Pathways™ gives you the arc.
Initiation Codes™ give you the personalization.
Disruption
Burn the scripts. Feel the fire.
Hormonal shifts surface what no longer fits. We stabilize your nervous system and decode what this upheaval is activating in your design.
Creation
Reclaim your power. Anchor your truth.
As cycles close, your voice strengthens. You release outdated identities and rebuild from embodied integrity.
Expansion
Design your purpose. Live on your terms.
With clarity restored and vitality reclaimed, you consciously architect your next chapter — aligned with your true design, not cultural expectation.
This is not vague spiritual awakening. It is biologically and energetically timed reinvention.
This Is For You If You:
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Feel like something in your life is shifting — but can’t fully name it
• Are navigating perimenopause, menopause, or post-menopause and sense it’s more than hormonal
• Are tired of holding everything together while quietly unraveling
• Have achieved competence — but crave alignment
• Feel less patient, less tolerant, and more aware
• Sense a deeper truth rising but don’t want to burn your life down
• Want science and spirituality integrated — not one without the other
• Are ready to be guided, not fixed
WHAT WE’LL DO TOGETHER
This work is part initiation, part nervous system recalibration, part radical reclamation of the woman you’re becoming.
Each phase builds on the last — guiding you through disruption, refinement, and expansion so you can consciously cross this threshold instead of being consumed by it.
Expect a potent blend of sacred truth, applied neuroscience, and personalized Initiation Code™ decoding — giving you both the map and the stability to walk it.
You’ll leave with:
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A clear understanding of the Initiation Codes™ activated in your midlife — and what they are asking you to shed and embody
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• A regulated, resilient nervous system that supports clarity instead of reactivity
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• Deep insight into where you’ve been over-giving, over-performing, or living out of alignment
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• Practical, grounded frameworks to make aligned decisions about work, relationships, and purpose
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• A renewed sense of vitality, sovereignty, and leadership rooted in your true design
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• The confidence to step into your next chapter without burning your life down
What's Included
✔ 8 Live Group Coaching & Integration Calls
Guided teaching, nervous system regulation, and cohort support through the Phoenix Pathways™
✔ The Complete Phoenix Pathways™ Workbook Series
Structured workbooks for Disruption, Creation, and Expansion phases
✔ Personalized Initiation Code™ Mapping
Clarity on the Gates activated in your midlife and what they are initiating you into
✔ Applied Nervous System Regulation Tools
Science-backed practices to stabilize reactivity and restore vitality
✔ Frameworks for Identity & Purpose Realignment
Grounded decision-making tools for career, relationships, and leadership
✔ Full Membership to the Golden F*cks Club™
Monthly gatherings and ongoing community support with other women navigating midlife
This Is a Crossing — Not a Crisis
The Initiation Codes™ Cohort is a guided group experience inside the School of Reclamation™ designed to:
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Regulate your nervous system.
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Decode the Gates activated in your midlife.
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Release what’s burning away.
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Reclaim what’s rising.
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Realign your life with who you’re becoming.
Midlife isn’t a crisis.
It’s an initiation.
You don’t need to blow up your life.
You need a map — and support.
You are not unraveling. You are being initiated.
A Final note from me
I didn’t create this because I’ve mastered it.
I created this because I’ve lived it.
The burnout.
The identity unraveling.
The fog of “I don’t even know what I want anymore.”
I clawed my way back through alignment, not hustle.
And that’s what I want for you.
Not another “system.” Not another strategy.
But a space to come back to your truth, your voice, your power, and your purpose
